Any advice would be so much appreciated.
I have a friend who totally inappropriately bitched at another friend (they aren't friends with each other, but they're both friends of mine) in front of a large group of people. It was entirely uncalled for and while I love them both, I know she was in the wrong. I feel like I need to speak up about my feelings, because she needs to know that it wasn't okay, but I don't know how to do it without risking sounding like a bitch myself.
E-mail is a possibility, of course, but she could take it the entirely wrong way because it'll be without intonation, as things online tend to be.
A phone conversation is another option, but without seeing my face it might seem definitely impersonal, which would be bad.
Lastly, we could talk in person, but what if she gets offended and decides to scream at me? I don't fancy that idea at all.
Oh, what a dilemma.
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